I’ve had laryngitis at least 3 or 4 times since last summer, and I’m struggling with a bout of it again. What are you supposed to do when you’re a mom and you’re sick? You can’t write down your requests to your children because only one of them reads and he ignores my verbal requests already (why add insult to injury). You can’t use sign language (aside from the fact that you don’t know sign language, they wouldn’t understand it and probably wouldn’t “listen” anyway).
One trick I found that actually has worked best this time is to whisper. Oh man! You wouldn’t believe how much quieter things have been (I may not ever “re-gain” my voice - it might even help me resolve my yelling problem). If I whisper - they have to be quiet enough to hear me (and I won’t repeat myself but once). And my too-loud-3-year-old actually whispers back if I whisper to her. Now, why didn’t I think of whispering to her months ago instead of telling her to shut-up!
But, when it came to story-time, I just didn’t (cough, cough) think I could (cough, cough) whisper through (cough, cough) a half dozen stories since I felt like I was drowning in my own phlegm! Hubby was out of town, and I hated to ask my oldest because he was coughing too. Then I remembered something that had been handed down to us by my sister-in-law. We’ve used them on-and-off over the years - do you remember these? The Disney Read-Along books were the perfect solution tonight!
The four of us cuddled around the tape player in the boys’ room and listened to “Lady and the Tramp” (a Disney classic), “If You Give A Mouse A Cookie,” (by Laura Joffe Numeroff) and “Green Eggs and Ham” (by Dr. Suess). (Which reminded me that when my 5-year-old was 2, we had to read him this book several times a day - where was the tape then? He is our pickiest eater today . . . mmmmmm.)
We got off to a bumpy start, especially with my 3-year-old. A cassette isn’t quite as easy to stop and ask questions with, and asking questions causes everyone to miss part of the story (and older sibling brothers who know the story by heart really get angry when they miss the story). I stopped the tape, explained that tonight we just had to listen quietly and save our questions for later. With that said, we resumed our story time, listening for the chimes to tell us when to turn the page (thank goodness no one fought over that privilege - Whew!).
I got to checking a little bit . . . these classics are often found on ebay, but of course Amazon.com has a bunch of options too (mostly on CD). I think I’ll be making a few purchases - never know when I’ll fully recover from laryngitis.
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September 12th, 2007 at 10:30 pm
Whispering was a great techinique to get my girls to quiet down when they were younger. Glad it works for you! I’d try the tape idea, but I know my kids…they’d be SO disappointed that I wasn’t reading it “with voices”.
September 12th, 2007 at 10:30 pm
Whispering was a great techinique to get my girls to quiet down when they were younger. Glad it works for you! I’d try the tape idea, but I know my kids…they’d be SO disappointed that I wasn’t reading it “with voices”. But it’d be great on road trips! (If only the tape deck in the car worked!)
September 12th, 2007 at 10:44 pm
My husband is better with voices than I am (I forget which voice I’m supposed to be using when :). We have used a kids portable tape player in the car with the books on tape - great especially on long trips!
September 18th, 2007 at 2:22 pm
When my kids were little, I would always sing to them at night. I would make up the words as I went. So, when they would ask for that lightbulb song again, I couldn’t repeat it cuz I never could remember the words. I did record my singing (something only my children’s ears could love) and they could listen to me over and over whenever they wanted. It also worked out great when mom wasn’t home to put the kids to bed, they could still have their songs. Worked for Me. Maybe if you recorded their favorite books on tape, using your special voice, your kids would cherish them and want to listen to the books forever. Thanks for such a great tip.
September 18th, 2007 at 2:43 pm
Shari - this is such a fabulous idea (reading books on tape and singing on tape) and cheaper too! (although many libraries have books on tape as well
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